Because everyone needs to let loose every once in awhile…. I took break from studies, gym,art. Reply Resh February 16th, 2016 and mass ignorance are not an enemy of the psychiatric establishment rather they are the means in which they keep their positions of power and control over the individual. Like a lot of people here, I feel chronically isolated and lonely. As a result my loneliness is real & physical not just some “critical inner voice” bullshit. John December 14th, 2013 They always say “haven’t we seen enough of each other” – this in response to trying to get together after the last event that would have been 2 months prior! All this social anxiety/feeling of isolation is exacerbated by the fact that I’m in a foreign country, whose language I do not speak, but it’s also stuff I’ve used alcohol and drugs to forget about in my normal life back home. You can visit the Lifeline or chat online with them here: http://www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org I see everyone with friends, girlfriends, wives, all hanging out and I am the only person out there with nobody to hang out with despite several meetup tries. The best. And lovely, user-friendly website. But that’s an issue of another sort. What triggered this feeling which I have come to have alot…. No need to worry much about her. I understand your struggle buddy. Reply Here is a link to her book: https://www.amazon.com/Robi-Ludwig/e/B001HD07NE. The search for self is also a wonderful thing. sorry to take up your time to those who read this cause i know it sounds crazy. I feel the same and I blame myself or the cultural differences. I haven’t seen them in years . Experience with the Website was good and they have some great products. Great site. I am also an only child. People except my parents see my smile outside and see this upbeat and confident guy, but I feel insecure and worthless on the inside often. In the meantime I hope this post acts as a cathartic practise and I know I need to start meditating and building up my self-worth (third chakra or whatever you want to call it). jen March 11th, 2014 I HATE having those feelings! Reply I’m a guy, aged 22. Great local brand. People say go out and have a drink somewhere, talk to people. And there are many of us Good men out there which i am sure many of you will certainly agree with me that we Would’ve wanted that as well. I hope that this is worth it one day. I am also an only child. Rainer Maria Rilke once said that to confront our solitude is very difficult. Dr. Lisa Firestone suggests that individuals who feel chronically isolated participate in volunteer work, because reaching out to others has many benefits for mental health, including helping people feel less isolated and alone. Reply I like the basis of your comment. I am Catholic and go to church and put faith in GOD and pray my life gets better. A high school student and her brother are helping seniors feel less lonely with notes and care packages . I guess other pages in PsychAlive address it: get out of my head and just DO SOMETHING in this area in between the obvious extremes. It felt like I had no freedom. Kaye April 6th, 2016 assuming its more than a year now, things would have worked out one way or other I am a beautifull pracefull new city. Reply Reply I see loneliness as being part of our human condition, just as being geared towards negativity is. Now if I can only convince my bf of that as he is the world’s biggest pessimist and paranoid! I haven’t spoken to them now for 20 years since my parents died, around that time ago. I like shopping but don’t need anything from there. Take care and stay happy! I am used to this feeling, it is very hard to make it over a bit. Absolutely 10/10, one of the best clothing brands in Australia. So, it’s upsetting me also. tracey wilson August 10th, 2014 It’s a non-crisis service, so do never think your issues are not a good enough reason to reach out for support. Reply The good cry makes sense to me, I don’t really alow myself to cry very often but I do feel better when I do. Hilarious shirt, friendly, not-bot check out service! Jina @ PsychAlive.org April 4th, 2014 Working on self help via internet information. Nearly everyone on this planet now seems to think they only live for the moment, for money, for their families and friends and petty politics or interest group and everything else be damned- God, the world, the environment, your neighbor. Keep in mind that IMO 99% of the people on this planet aren’t worth the time of day now. Anyone! She dont bother about my lunch or dinner. I’m 24, working 2 jobs, and trying to get through college. There’s no point in feeling sad about family coz it just hurts and keeps us away from happiness and the present. If the current therapist is not working for you, please consider asking your grandparents to help you find someone you would be comfortable with. was married and he left me because I couldn’t take care of him anymore the way he was used to, obviously he didn’t love me he was using me. We read your comment and know it takes courage to reach out when you are in distress. know what i mean? Stay strong. You will have a tremendous capacity to take care of yourself and others. Reply While you are cooking and doing chores, maybe you can use that time to help yourself also. When I was 3yr old, my dad took me away from my mom actually the case was taken to court and I went with my mom as innocent as I was and that day in the court room, the judge ruled in favor of my dad. CBT tends to use one-size-fits-all psychology, and it’s just one more way that the mental health industry dehumanizes people suffering from trauma and mental illness. My kids have grown up and have their own life’s and I don’t want them worrying about me, so I put on the fake smile and pretend that I’m ok. I have one grown child and she is my only family. Nicely stated Sir. Amazing quality shirts! All I wanna say is maybe the loneliness will pass away, we shouldn’t surrender to it. 0:00 | 00:51:59. I’m a Stay at Home mom to my 17 month old daughter. Please guys help, i know i’m being a girl here but i am so attached to her that this situation is getting out of my hand. The only time i leave my small apartment is to go to dr appointments and too church. Possibly. Wish you luck I came from Europe to US. Super responsive and very accommodating (not to mention FRIENDLY)! Would recommend. If anyone is out there, could you please give me some advice? attractions; experiences; stories; guidebook; places; Welcome to Dominica. Please don’t give up! Don’t let it get to you. i think i will feel less unhappy with myself if i write it down. homy November 12th, 2015 The world has almost no opportunities for like minded people who don’t fit into the Walmart mold, esp. On top of that, I talk a lot when I am talking to someone and partly because I get so anxious and because I am so alone I feel some part of me feels I’ll never be able to get it out to someone. I am trying to keep busy but living by yourself especially when all my friends are married is so difficult . I’m fortunate enough to have a home with a little yard and wildlife. Sometimes men and/or husbands say stupid things like ‘all in your head’ b/c they don’t know what to do or say. Just baby steps. I want to give up on life alot these days, but I remember how beautiful life was, so at this point I just want to try everything I can. I have tried changing my life-style, trying to be ”positive” by volunteering, finding jobs etc, but i end up giving up on jobs because i have been turned down after giving 2 interviews at the same place, which i’m thinking it’s me, because i’m negative and they can see through me or some other bizarre reason. Reply If we are but willing and open to allowing ourself be open, honest, vulnerable and compassionate with ourselves first, and then others, we will come to know deep truths about ourself, about each other, about our higher power or God, and the universe. wanz November 3rd, 2016 There are people, wonderful volunteers that can help and distract yourself from such an exhausting feeling as loneliness is. See if you agree. Hang in there Michelle and try to find your hope somewhere to help you feel a little better. I have 4 siblings I am the youngest of the 5 of us. sometimes I take my frustration on him. Reply I went on to college and earned a bachelor’s degree in Health science and was admitted to a master’s program in an IV league university. Maybe those two spiritual practices, though beneficial in many great ways, well maybe I took it too far. WebMD – Depression Ines November 25th, 2020 I’m stuck in this stupid self pity! I try to focus on the positives but if my life is still like this when I’m in my 30s I don’t see why’D would want me to carry on being unhappy, not married and not employed. Sloth Yin and Yang Tee (Orchard Stone Wash). But I crave to live and not merely exist. I find myself lonely and isolated quite frequently. where do I go from here. I am vain and I pray GOD gets rid of that sin as I hate it but I am extremely concerned about my appearance , my weight how I look. Hi John, Your post sounds exactly like me, except in the male form. I hope it’s not misery likes company. I wonder if these feelings are a call from the universe to dig deep and attune with our inner selves. What we deeply lack is connection and authenticity, with ourselves, each other, and our higher power. The world is full of lonely people. Evidently I look young for my age and attractive…just seen as a younger looking woman on these men arms. We really like each other and we are in the fourth year of bachelors degree and having been in a relationship. I have friends that are girls too, and I share some of my personal stuff to them. But I can go for day’s without hearing from anyone. I actuely am popular and have great friends who love me but I still feel alone. Reply reviews tab title. Kids Helpline (ages 5 to 25) — call 1800 55 1800; Beyond Blue — call 1300 22 4636; headspace (ages 12 to 25) — call 1800 650 890 But on the other hand, people can feel lonely, or depressed, or both w/o having Asperger’s as well. Think of activities you could do together or things you could share on a more regular basis. I am home alone and it is night. But most importantly, he just wants to express his feelings by talking to someone- anyone- or writing down how he feels. I do think that our society has become more inward and selfish. I am 40, and will be 41 soon (I don’t even look my age right now), and I would like to hope that I am somehow leaving a footprint, or doing something helpful for others while we are still alive! There’s already enough self blame. I would this shop to any of my friends, if they are looking for Ethically made, high-quality clothing and they shirts are awesome. Love that it's run by a guy who loves what he does - Warwick's love and passion comes across in everything he does.The products are very high quality, comfy & unique - and slowly taking up more and more of my wardrobe ;P. Fantastic customer service, cool and high quality designs and fabrics, and generally an excellent customer experience. A collection of graphic tees. I moved 3 years ago from my hometown to the US and it was extremely difficult. It sounds like you have overcome a lot, like breaking your self-abuse with drugs and alcohol. The more I look inward the worse I feel and the more I look outward the stranger the world feels to me like the conversations that are going on around me are in a different langue. I can’t sleep I just feel sad and trying to sleep isn’t working. Due to claiming benefits it was the only private landlord i could find to take me on. No i feel the same way my kids grew up left me alone i dont know what happiness is anymore i just live get thru the day and wait next day what i face 56 years old alone and scared my kids want me be there for them where are they god bless hope this all will pass.. That’s good the I’ll do that next time. I wake up in the late afternoon till the early morning. I wonder if these feelings are a call from the universe to dig deep and attune with our inner selves. Jina @ PsychAlive.org January 6th, 2014 Learn to have an open mind and heart and know that no one is right or wrong in there experiences. Reply But then the commenters go on to lament that they can find the right kind of company–someone who’s attractive enough, or wealthy enough, or well-connected socially enough, or has the right kind of job, or is cool enough. and mass ignorance are not an enemy of the psychiatric establishment rather they are the means in which they keep their positions of power and control over the individual. If it weren’t for my daughter, I wouldn’t have any interaction with anyone during the day. An excellent shop with excellent clothes and excellent people, Long time customer of these guys, and have always been thoroughly impressed with the quality of their products and their level of customer service! AJ ALI June 29th, 2014 I lost myself for quite some time, and decided to try finding myself. I have also tried to do voluntary work but they dont need me often enough to be out the house. Reply Great products, great service and true commitment to philanthropy. It sounds like you have overcome a lot, like breaking your self-abuse with drugs and alcohol. Sorry to hear you are lonely and depressed. My physical appearance change drastically… I gained 50 pounds, and gained pimples because of puberty. Im so hurt that he left me and feel that no one will take me serious. When i am with them I don’t talk I listen to them and at work I do not talk. I have no religion, so I will keep my views to my self in that regard. Even if it hurts my oldest granddaughter that i raised for the first year and a half of her life. i love them and they love me.thats whats keeping me up.they tried their hardest to hlep me and what do i give them in return?nothing. We are one. In fact I look younger and energetic. I would love to meet someone who would see me for me. Life can get harder & lonelier . Many of us AREN’T SINGLE BY CHOICE at all which is sad that we have to deal with this since so many others were very BLESSED to be with one another since it does really TAKE TWO TO TANGO. these last two ‘states’ make connections to others IMPOSSIBLE. Reply One was only listed in 2XL when others were in 3XL. The t-shirts look great, delivery was exactly as advised and the service was very personal. Brilliant ethical fashion company with plenty of personality and lots of love. Everyone deserves the support they need! I've been shopping from here for two years and don't plan on stopping.Keep up the great work! I feel like I have lost myself. It’s very hard to get past cheating and lies from others you were close with. Joe March 16th, 2016 I am trying to keep busy but living by yourself especially when all my friends are married is so difficult . We may feel that the world around us is threatening or beyond our control. Reply Everyone who meets and hangs with me says I’m cool or funny…but most of the time I don’t feel that way at all. I sometimes question weather life is all worth it, my parents do know I have depression but I bottle it up when I’m with them, I am involved at my church and involved and outside in life, but sometimes I wonder if GOD truly wants me to live if I’m suffering so much inside. When I recognized that it was depression that I struggled with (and I thank Oprah for having that show on depression that I happened to have seen) …well, it was like an epiphany, and the next day I called and made an appointment to see a doctor. lauren November 8th, 2019 Reply Actually I also suffer from social anxiety and am on a mental health care plan. As my health progresses I intend to mingle more. My husband has an outlet by working and always talks about his colleagues. 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