While I am very much against any animal abuse, I find it pretty shitty that women are valued even less. Click Here For Our Rules and Click Here For Our FAQ. TL;DR My ex's mom gave me a family heirloom fur coat and told me not to upcycle it into a teddy bear. We had a dog together. 7: In June, Tukhachevsky received permission from Antonov-Ovseyenko's commission to begin use of chemical weapons, by direct order from the leadership of Red Army and from the Communist Party. This is a really bad take. Fuck em. They were fine that I would never wear it and still wanted me to have it since there was at least the possibility that maybe someday I would wear it and I was again told that no one else in the family wanted it. F*ck the coat, the poor dog. Beyond that, they gave her the coat. The guy was emotionally abusive, destroyed her self-worth, had the police called on him because he was trying to break in and OP felt threatened for their safety, took her dog as a way to get back at her, and basically took everything away from her and tried to destroy her life. Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. More posts from the AmItheAsshole community. He moved out, took his stuff, gave me his apartment key, and we both moved on. I contacted his mother and gave it back directly to her because it was in no way acceptable for me to keep. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. Reddit on Friday said it banned r/donaldtrump — one of the biggest pro-Trump subreddits on the platform — after “repeated” violations of the site’s policy against inciting violence.. i hope she loves the new bear. You should have given it back. That would only serve to put her in a vulnerable position. Don't emotionally abuse them. Elway announced the hiring Wednesday. Behaving like this, he should be in JAIL. She can do whatever she wants with it. Completely agree with this comment. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. The entire middle four paragraphs of your story is completely irrelevant. We were engaged. You don't want your ex to destroy your stuff? I will always feel a bit like the AH for it. TL;DR My ex's mom gave me a family heirloom fur coat and told me not to upcycle it into a teddy bear. Or perhaps he won't do anything and you will get hurt because of his lack of care. Found out my ex got into a rebound relationship 5 months after our break-up and after WE were hooking up for the 4-months after all of it….it lasted a month, and when it ended, she reached out to me and is now coming out to visit me in a few weeks in my new city where I moved after we broke up and she moved out after a 7-year relationship. I found out later through a nasty email he sent me that his mother had prompted him to take the dog from me and that the dog was living happily with a friend of his. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole. Gave an E S H judgement but spent the whole passage stating how a 'shitty relationship doesn't give her a free' and bashing the abuse victim, but doesn't put the same energy into bashing the actual abuser. I decided for my peace and safety and mental health to give him the dog so I could be rid of him once and for all. (AP) — President Donald Trump renewed his grievance over the investigation into Russian interference in the 2016 election by pardoning Paul Erickson, a … The behavior of lying to the children about an ex-spouse is called “parental alienation” and is considered by the courts to be a serious offense. I did it anyway after we broke up. 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